We got a report about a post in this thread.
Guys you know this game is 20 years old and we're all talking through computer screens from god knows where, right? It's not that big of a deal, tone it down. This is supposed to be fun, not a crusade.
Consider crusading for fun by playing the game for once
Who's being needlessly personal?
I frankly feel odd naming names for fear of causing further drama - maybe that makes me hopelessly naive, I dunno. I'm also something of an outsider and am aware that that skews my perspective.
However, outsiders are exactly the sort of person you're interested in attracting, no? After all, people already part of your community can hardly join it. And, when I - as an outsider - see people associated with big-name projects with a gazillion badges under their names getting into spats about who may or may not have skipped over some forum post or other, or moderators belittling each other's moderation abilities, it makes me quite profoundly worried about my decision to register here, and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
But I don't want to cause a fuss, and I've said what I wanted to say.
You have correctly diagnosed the problem that this forum has been toxic and the moderation somewhat nebbish for years. A while ago a bunch of us tried to explain that hands-off and cautious moderation leaves project members dependent on their own snark to fend off persistent trolls (sup DarthWang) and promotes bickering and personal attacks. Similarly, low-standards everything-goes discussion in which an uninformed opinion stands on the same ground as an expert means that experts have to spend most of their time trying to get idiots to shut up. Forums with reasonable, proactive moderation had good posting! The others...well, it was open season.
I've been reading a great book which basically describes grudging and interpersonal dominance as rational responses to a system without a Leviathan; if there's no trustably impartial enforcer, everyone has to watch out for themselves.
The BP board has been very lucky to exist under Darius who's an incredibly decent and decisive guy, so it's been easy to focus on what's good. But you get something like TBP with IPAndrews popping up, or Diaspora before Möbius and Ironforge got banned, or WoD before DarthWang got outed, and the only thing to do is talk them out before they drag more people into it.
Good moderation focuses the forum on producing and enabling content. To the extent that GD has content it's smart people saying things about their expertise. People get very upset when confronted with the fact that their opinions are wrong, and that upset becomes the focus of discussion.
Modding is good. The modding community is friendly and helpful. Axem owns and works hard for the site.
The site's biggest challenge (as opposed to FSO's biggest challenge) is that it seems to get the most activity for:
1. A small group of people having discussions they could have anywhere
2. People complaining about the site and how it treated them
And not 3: FreeSpace mods.
Last night I prototyped an entire working 'mechlab' for FreeSpace warships! You could design and outfit your own capship. Unfortunately it sucked and wasn't fun, but I'll probably start a thread about the next take. I fully expect the next split derail about someone's grudge against someone else to get more replies.